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Exam stress: a practical guide for students and parents

Some stress helps you study; too much blocks memory. Simple, proven steps for better focus, sleep and calm.

Dr. Kuldeep Budania, MBBS, MD Psychiatry

Updated 11 October 2026 · 5 min read

For students

  • Sleep 7–8 hours — memory is consolidated during sleep
  • Study in 45–50 minute blocks with short breaks
  • Test yourself instead of only re-reading
  • Keep the phone in another room while studying
  • Use slow breathing (in for 4, out for 6) when anxious

For parents

  • Ask about effort and wellbeing, not only marks
  • Avoid comparing with other children
  • Notice changes in sleep, appetite, mood or withdrawal
  • Make it clear that their worth does not depend on one exam

When stress becomes a problem

If anxiety, low mood or sleeplessness lasts for weeks, grades drop despite effort, or there is any talk of self-harm, consult a professional. Tele-MANAS 14416 is available 24×7.

Frequently asked questions

How much sleep do students need before exams?

Most teenagers need about 8–10 hours and young adults 7–9 hours. Sleep improves memory more than late-night revision.

When should parents worry?

When a child stops eating or sleeping, withdraws, talks of hopelessness or self-harm, or cannot study at all — seek help early.

Medical references

Guidelines and official sources used for this article.

  1. Mental health of adolescents — fact sheet. World Health Organization.
  2. Tele-MANAS — National Tele Mental Health Programme. Ministry of Health and Family Welfare, Government of India.
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