Oppositional defiant disorder and conduct problems

ज़िद, गुस्सा और व्यवहार की समस्या (ODD)

ODD involves a persistent pattern of angry, argumentative and defiant behaviour. Conduct disorder is more serious, involving aggression, rule-breaking or harm to others.

Early help prevents school failure, substance use and legal problems later.

Medically reviewed by Dr. Kuldeep Budania, MBBS, MD Psychiatry

Common symptoms

  • Frequent temper tantrums and irritability
  • Arguing with adults, refusing rules
  • Deliberately annoying others, blaming others
  • Lying, stealing, running away, bunking school
  • Fighting, bullying, cruelty to animals (conduct disorder)

Causes

  • ADHD, learning difficulties or language delay
  • Inconsistent or very harsh discipline
  • Family conflict, violence or substance use at home
  • Peer influence, excess screen time

Risk factors

  • Harsh or inconsistent discipline; conflict between parents
  • ADHD and learning difficulties
  • Exposure to violence or peers involved in substance use

How it is diagnosed

  • Pattern of anger, arguing and defiance (ODD), or rule-breaking, aggression and stealing (conduct disorder) for at least six months
  • Checking for ADHD, depression, learning disorder and substance use

Classification: ICD-10 F91.3, F91 · ICD-11 6C90, 6C91Oppositional defiant disorder / conduct-dissocial disorder.

Treatment options

  1. 1Parent management training — clear rules, praise, consistent consequences
  2. 2Child therapy for anger control and problem-solving
  3. 3Treating ADHD, learning or mood problems
  4. 4Working with the school
  5. 5Medicines only for specific associated conditions

Psychotherapy and counselling

  • Parent management training — the most effective treatment
  • Anger-management and problem-solving skills for the child

Guidance for family

  • Stay calm, give clear choices and follow through consistently
  • Avoid physical punishment — it increases aggression

When to see a psychiatrist

  • Behaviour problems at home and school for months
  • Aggression, stealing or substance use
  • Parents feel they have lost control

Thoughts of self-harm or a medical emergency? Call Tele-MANAS 14416 (24×7, free) or 112.

Frequently asked questions

Is my child just badly behaved?

Persistent patterns often have underlying causes like ADHD or stress. Labelling doesn't help; a plan does.

Does beating help?

No. Harsh punishment usually increases aggression. Consistent, calm consequences work better.

Do both parents need to attend?

Ideally yes — consistency between caregivers is key.

Help is available — confidential, in Hindi or English.

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This page is for education and does not replace a personal consultation. Do not start or stop any medicine without a doctor's advice.